^ Agreed.
Ultimately as an adult you should be able to handle it. I was taken a little off-guard when I first got to kirkwood when I realized that they weren't going to hold my hand and make sure I took the necessary classes like my high school did. Once I realized that they were just expecting me to be an adult and take care of my own business I have been doing just fine.
In fact, it never hurts to keep in contact with the college that you plan to transfer to. This semester I have had multiple email conversations with advisers from the U of Iowa and advisers from Kirkwood in preparation for my transfer (and also to make sure i've taken the MAXIMUM amount of classes at kirkwood that will make my time at Iowa as short as possible)
To me it was really simple. If I'm hearing the same things from Iowa as I'm hearing from kirkwood, then we're good. When there's conflicting comments being made to me by each party, I was able to investigate it further and find out which one had their facts straight... and I'd hate to say it but 9 times out of 10 it was the kirkwood advisers that had everything under control and the Iowa advisers that were leading me in the wrong direction.
Zac