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ZacFields
04-08-2009, 02:58 PM
Has anyone read the news articles lately about how "sexting" (in high school and middle school) is considered child pornography, and the creator of the pictures as well as all the recipients can be charged with child pornography and put on the sex offendor list in most cases?

What do you guys think about this? In Iowa, it is 100% legal to engage in sexual intercourse beginning at age 16. That is to say that two 16-year olds can have sex and there's not a thing their parents can do about it except ground them. Yet, if in the process of sexual intercourse, one of the partners whips out a call phone and snaps a picture, that'll land him/her on the sex offender's registry next to rapists and real child pornographers.

I personally think its disgusting that this is happening. These kids are not aware of the legal ramifications of such a simple act, and of course it's not something that they're going to be thinking about. Hell it's hard enough to get kids to have enough sense to use condoms, let alone understand the life-changing consequences of snapping a picture with their cell phone.

Other than the fact that all your neighbors will know you're a registered sex offender for the rest of your life (and let's not forget the fact that you can't live in certain areas now), you are a convicted felon and there are very few businesses that will even consider hiring you.

IMO, one of two things need to change:

1. If the sex being had is legal, then it should not be considered a crime to take pictures/video. If your state says you can have sex at age 16, then a 16-year old girl should be able to take a nude photo of herself and send it to her boyfriend. If you can have sex, why shouldn't you be able to take a picture of it?

OR

2. It should be illegal to engage in sexual activities until age 18.

The problem here is the difference between what is legal to do and what is legal to take a picture of. To me, there shouldn't be a difference between the two. Child pornography laws were created to protect young children from being molested, abused, and exploited. I completely and 100% support child pornography laws. But those laws were not meant to ruin the life of some boy or girl who was too stupid not to take naked pictures of themself and send it to their friends.

Simply put, you are NOT a "sexual offendor" if you took a picture of yourself or allowed your boyfriend/girlfriend to take a picture of you naked. These kids should be punished, but let's not ruin their lives over some stupid mistake they made that involved no sort of abuse or molestation.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/04/07/sex ... index.html (http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/04/07/sexting.busts/index.html)

DustinsDuster
04-08-2009, 04:24 PM
i guess im kindof torn about it. the lines get so grey and disappear so much, you cant even really take a stance on it. i totally agree with you that a 16 year old boy or girl shouldnt have their lives ruined forever because they were too stupid to know better. but i also think that as a whole, people dont take enough responsibility for their actions anymore. everyone is constantly passing the buck and blaming someone or something else for their stupidity.

the thing is, if the "sexting" stayed private like it was intended(like the actual sex act), and didnt get passed on to people over 18, there wouldnt be the problem. but seemingly no one can just keep these things to themselves and we have this whole fiasco now. even in this, i dont think the sender's life should be ruined because they trusted someone they love (or whatever) and that person betrayed that trust.

i dont know where i stand- im all for people taking responsibility for their actions, but i still agree they shouldnt have to live in the shadow of their teenage mistake for the rest of their lives.

Drifte
04-08-2009, 10:22 PM
speaking o f which. I met one of those sick fucks tonight at walmart. Remember whenever a stranger asks a simple question, answer if you must but dont stop walking. SIck f#$@, if I ever find him outside that store...

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let me clarify. White male, age 35-45 6ft. glasses. camo jacket and cap. Asks me if theirs a farm and fleet type store around town. I answer and he continues to talk..and talk. And it went from rubber boots to how to have good sex...etc.

JacobS
04-08-2009, 11:02 PM
speaking o f which. I met one of those sick fucks tonight at walmart. Remember whenever a stranger asks a simple question, answer if you must but dont stop walking. SIck f#$@, if I ever find him outside that store...

[edit]
let me clarify. White male, age 35-45 6ft. glasses. camo jacket and cap. Asks me if theirs a farm and fleet type store around town. I answer and he continues to talk..and talk. And it went from rubber boots to how to have good sex...etc.
did he talk about how a kid would wear a pair of rubber boots while screwing his girlfriend in the barn on some hay? i talked to him last year...in the movie section at the walmart on edgewood haha

im with dustin on this one, i cant choose a side. while i think making them a felon is wrong, they shouldnt have done it in the first place.

69gt4speed
04-09-2009, 12:04 AM
I'll let you guys comment on this, personally if my daughter or son was caught doing this don't really know what I'd do. Now they are way past the age.

What I'd like to say under any circumstance do not have ur g/f b/f etc. email you any stuff like that or any racial sexual biased stuff to any work computer. They have every right to look at it and take action and say if it was underage stuff well they might just report it. Bad news then.... So keep that in mind, major corp. esp. don't like it as it is on their computer or server. You esp are liable if you forward it on to someone else from their computers. They can fire you plain and simple. Example a obama cartoon depicing racial/sexual slogon and or could be taken meaning.
http://my.wrif.com/mim/wp-content/uploa ... _smoke.jpg (http://my.wrif.com/mim/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/obama_smoke.jpg)
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j186/ ... ouse-1.jpg (http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j186/DonaldDouglas/Americaneocon/whitehouse-1.jpg)

Drifte
04-09-2009, 12:14 AM
speaking o f which. I met one of those sick fucks tonight at walmart. Remember whenever a stranger asks a simple question, answer if you must but dont stop talking. SIck fuck, if I ever find him outside that store...

[edit]
let me clarify. White male, age 35-45 6ft. glasses. camo jacket and cap. Asks me if theirs a farm and fleet type store around town. I answer and he continues to talk..and talk. And it went from rubber boots to how to have good sex...etc.
did he talk about how a kid would wear a pair of rubber boots while screwing his girlfriend in the barn on some hay? i talked to him last year...in the movie section at the walmart on edgewood haha

im with dustin on this one, i cant choose a side. while i think making them a felon is wrong, they shouldnt have done it in the first place.

exactly. I knew immediately something was off. and I was right. Lets find tihis creapy bastard.

JacobS
04-09-2009, 01:22 AM
gave me the heeby jeebies...rob, youve got good point...

69gt4speed
04-09-2009, 01:57 PM
Yes, I'm not joking.... So like with iowa court overturning the gay marriage ban, sure to be new cartoons or etc. circulating via email. Most bigger co. back up ur email accounts for a month or better. If you get one then delete immediately, you can say it is spam bs. Can't control what you get, but you forward it that's a conscious act of approving and sending it on w the co. ip. Just know with economy as it is, co. have every reason to can you, cut out the problems/dead wood. I'd like everyone keeping their job that has co. email accounts or uses co. computers to go online.

TbTalon94
04-09-2009, 02:30 PM
i personally think it should of been left up to the parents to punish their MINORS. Not for them to become a felon for the rest of their life.

There are REAL sex offenders out there, REAL child-molestors and child-pornography. Why can't we focus on them, instead of making a big deal out of some teenagers sending nude photos of eachother. This country gets worse every day. I'd like to slap the shit out of the parents that let that happen, along with the judge that called it.

Ricky
04-10-2009, 11:05 AM
how about this... why dont the parents NOT FUCKING BY THERE KID A CELL PHONE IN MIDDLE SCHOOL. These parents are asking for it. I didnt have a cell phone tell i started to drive and even then it was my moms phone so she could call.

OR if they HAVE to have cell phones why dont the parents put a block on picture messaging?

Stro
04-10-2009, 04:56 PM
^ I know it sounds like a crazy idea from way out in left field, but they do still make cell phones that ONLY make phone calls! Its simple, ALL it does is allow 2 people to communicate to each other by voice. Who knew that was an option lol.

So like Ricky said, If they HAVE to have cell phones... just my 2 cents.

Drifte
04-11-2009, 11:12 AM
what a drag dude. I would totally die if i couldnt text my bff's.

Stro
04-11-2009, 12:15 PM
^Who? Derek with the mustache and mustang derek? Sorry theres a no Derek's with mustache and mustangs clause.

s13kid
04-13-2009, 01:02 AM
what a drag dude. I would totally die if i couldnt text my bff's.


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